02.20 反駁別人還在說“I don't think so”,情商太低了!

相信大家一定都有和別人意見不同的時候吧!

如果我們用“I don't think so”這樣直接的表達來反駁別人,會顯得太過生硬,情商低。

因此,這期就來學習一下如何用英語委婉的提出不同的看法。

反駁別人還在說“I don't think so”,情商太低了!

01

I see your point, but…

我瞭解你的意思,但是……

不管認不認同,用“I see your point” 當開頭都是不錯的選擇,因為闡明想法前先肯定對方的說法是比較保險的用句。

例句:

A: I think the boss should give us a raise. We've been working here for more than five years!

A:我覺得老闆要給我們加薪啦!我們都在這裡工作超過五年了。

B: I see your point, but our company is suffering from the financial crisis. It's just not the best time to bring this up.

B:我瞭解你的意思,可是目前公司正遭受金融危機的波及,現在不是提這個的好時機。

02

That's one way of looking at it. However, I prefer to …

這是一種看法,但是我傾向……

A: Studying for a master's degree is a must-do for me because I can acquire more knowledge and skills that I will need for my future job.

A:讀碩士對我來說是一定要的,因為我可以學到未來工作所需的知識與技巧。

B: That's one way of looking at it. However, I prefer to go straight to work after college, since I can learn what I need on the job.

B:這是一種看法,但我傾向於畢業後先工作,因為我可以通過工作學習我想學的。

反駁別人還在說“I don't think so”,情商太低了!

03

I wouldn't quite put it that way myself. I would say that…

我個人不會這麼說。我會說……

例句:

A: Would you say being a brown-noser is shameful?

A:你認為拍馬屁的人可恥嗎?

B: I wouldn't quite put it that way myself. I would say that person knows how to deal with his or her boss.

B:我個人不會這麼說,我會說那個人明白和老闆應對的方式。

04

That's one way we could go, but what about…

這個想法可行,不過我們也可以……

這句話已經非常有禮貌了!先肯定對方的說法沒問題,再委婉提出自己的想法,適用於職場上各種場合。

例句:

A: What do you think about our proposal? Do you have any suggestion?

A:你覺得我們的提案如何?有任何建議嗎?

B: Well, that's one way we could go, but what about modifying it a bit? It'll be more feasible.

B:嗯,是沒問題,但要不要稍微修改一下?這樣會更可行。

總之,在提出自己觀點之前先肯定別人會讓語氣更緩和,掌握這種說話藝術,不管是在職場,還是生活中,都會讓溝通更順暢哦~


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